There are people who are always lucky. They live easily, playfully, easily build a career and, of course, are happy in their personal lives.
The lucky ones envy those to whom fate is not so supportive. It seems that they are unlucky in life, and in all areas at once.
A typical situation: a loved one left, at the interview they preferred another candidate, got into the rain, was late for the bus and even the sandwich again fell butter down.
If it seems that you are disastrously unlucky, then it's time to look for the cause.
Often people themselves bring trouble into their lives, and then they are surprised and blame the "law of meanness" for everything.
Below are 10 actions that turn you into a magnet for trouble. Review your behavior and your life will change.
10. You are going the wrong way
Many people do not know what they want from life. Instead of stopping, giving themselves a break and thinking about this issue, they prefer not to pay attention to their inner voice. They live a strange dream and go the wrong way.
If you are also familiar with this situation, think: do you want to live like this for the rest of your life?
If a person works in an office and wants to interfere with cocktails in a coastal cafe, then even a high salary and career growth will not make him happy.
Think about what you want to do in life, and begin to move towards your goal. Do not stop, even if this idea seems crazy to your family and friends.
9. You do not care about your health
Bad health and bad mood are easy to defeat. It is only necessary to start eating right.
If you regularly overeat with sweet or fatty foods, are addicted to alcohol, ignore hospitals, a black streak may begin in your life.
The fact is that health affects the quality of life and personal success.
Take care of your body. Go through routine medical examinations, include more fruits and vegetables in your diet, and drink clean water.
Your body will say “thank you”, you will feel light and cheerful, you will have the strength for new achievements.
8. You program yourself to fail
Everyone has at least once heard of the power of thought, only few use this tool. Most people prefer to come up with excuses and pre-program themselves for failure.
You can do the same, but look at great people. They went to their goal and did what they liked, despite the obstacles.
For example, the much-loved adventure novel Robinson Crusoe was written in prison. The author Daniel Defoe did not grumble at fate and mourn his existence, he was engaged in what brought him satisfaction and pleasure.
Do not think about the bad, do not attract failure into your life. Think positively, believe in yourself, and then you can overcome any obstacles.
7. Toxic people surround you
If among your friends there are individuals who are constantly dissatisfied with everything, it is better to minimize communication with them.
Perhaps you also underestimate the influence of the environment on your life. But in vain. Toxic people tend to turn any situation into a stressful one, they take away your life energy and even affect self-esteem.
If after meeting a person you feel devastation and weakness, refuse further communication.
If a friend tries to assert himself at your expense, nothing good will come of this friendship.
Change the circle of friends, attract active positive people into your life, you will also want to become one.
6. You tend to overestimate what you do not have and underestimate what is
Most people do not know how to enjoy their life, they are not happy with their achievements, but set themselves new goals. Their life is like a race.
Learn to thank fate for what you already have. People tend to overestimate what others have.
Do not envy friends and neighbors. Appreciate what you have. If you are single, enjoy it. Live for your pleasure, do not rush to find the "man of dreams", do not chase after him, then he will definitely come into your life.
If you are married, you have children, do not envy a free girlfriend who goes to restaurants and cafes every day.
Thank fate for giving you a family. It is not for nothing that many television projects have recently appeared in which participants are offered several days to exchange work, wives, husbands, and houses. This is a good opportunity to understand that a person is in his place, and someone else's life is not as good as it seems at first glance.
5. You compare yourself to other people
If you want to ruin your life, start comparing yourself to other people. Choose more successful, beautiful, sociable, young.
People are so arranged, it seems to them that others live better, but such comparisons are the cause of low self-esteem and many problems.
If you also like to watch other people's photos on social networks, the risk of making a neurosis is much greater for you than for those who are indifferent to them.
Now many people like to do this, only after such views the mood spoils sharply and their own worthlessness is felt more strongly.
Most of the photos on the social network are not true. Everyone can show how happy he is, although in reality this is not so. You can only compare yourself to yourself, the way you were before.
4. You put things off for later
Everyone is trying to simplify their lives. What does he do first? Of course, he puts things off "for tomorrow."
This behavior turns life into chaos. Every day there are more and more tasks and obligations that you must fulfill. One fine day, a person realizes that he cannot escape on his own.
You can postpone cleaning or repairs if you like living in a dirty and uncomfortable apartment, but no one will tolerate such behavior at work, they will simply fire you. The reputation of an irresponsible person will be a serious obstacle to finding a new job.
Do you still think that the law of meanness is to blame for all the troubles? Fulfill all your duties on time, never put off things until later. You live now, “then” may not come for you at all.
3. You feel uncomfortable in your own home
Sometimes people realize that most of the trouble with them happens at home. Cuts, scratches, things that fell on his head - all this does not indicate that it is time to call a psychics or a priest, but that it is time to pay attention to your home.
If you do not like your apartment, try to make repairs, throw away old things, clean up, plant flowers.
If you still have a strange feeling, then sell this apartment and buy a new one. A house is a place where people rest and regain their strength, so it is important that you feel comfortable and protected in your home.
2. Decisions are made by your “inner child”
Psychologists say that in every person lives an inner child, parent and adult.
Decisions are made depending on which medium prevails in the human psyche: the child acts as he wants, the parent - as needed, the adult - as it is more appropriate.
Those people whose “inner child” is selfish, jerky, moody, have big problems in life. The fact is that they allow him to solve important issues, live on emotions, do not think about the consequences.
It should be understood that you have not been a child for a long time, and if you are still not mature, it is time to do it.
1. You are too stubborn
Stubbornness is a very good quality, if used wisely. Stubborn people achieve their goals, they do not stop at anything.
Only if stubbornness borders on stupidity, nothing good will come of it. No need to prove anything to anyone or commit rash acts out of harm.
If you understand that the result will not live up to your expectations, give up this idea. In general, before you do something, evaluate all the risks and then decide whether to take any action.