A man, like a woman, has a certain vision of an ideal partner, if you like, half. And let your boyfriend not make a clear list of preferences, but believe me, he has an understanding of what kind of woman he deserves.
Of course, it happens that a person’s expectations are too high, or he himself does not correspond to what is required of a partner. But still, a wise woman, the keeper of the hearth, should be ready to accept healthy criticism, work on relationships and follow the advice of her beloved man.
Consider exactly what character traits and actions a man expects from a girl, which can really give him comfort and happiness in a relationship.
10. Support
Everyone claims this action from the side of a loved one, but for some reason modern girls have become more selfish and demanding. They ask for the attention and participation of men in their affairs, the solution of their conflicts and financial problems. But once a young man’s difficulties arise, she immediately “folds her legs” and innocently bleats: “Well, you’re a man, you can do it yourself, you’re a strong sex”. But no, dear, the guy also expects a kind word, affection and care from his beloved girl. If you are not able to help him physically, financially or ideologically in resolving the issue, then at least support his plan of action, direct your thoughts in the right direction, inspire.
9. Give an opportunity to be alone
Logic men are often introverts. They are forced, wearing a mask, to play social roles at work, whether they are clerks or managers. At home in the “safe haven” every guy wants to feel nirvana and calm. But, as it often happens, instead of a tasty dinner and a relaxing rest, the man receives a mountain of demands and tantrums, a flood of information about the holidays and shoes, broken tanks and naughty children. Dear women, remember one simple psychological rule that can save your relationship - after coming from work (any labor activity) a man needs complete peace of mind for at least 1 hour, or better until he comes up and asks: “how was your day” . Remember that in a man critical thinking is revealed precisely in solitude, in his so-called “shell”. If you want actions and ideas from your beloved, let him fruitfully “help.”
8. Cheer up
Women are so interestingly arranged that to solve problems you need to collectively come together and discuss them. If a girlfriend was abandoned, then the girls around should be moaning and crying for the unsuccessful boyfriend. If she broke a nail, then a friend, out of solidarity, will twist the “face” and say, “as I understand you, this is soooo painful.” In men, everything is absolutely the opposite! If they have problems or illnesses, then you do not need to sit next to them and suffer, moan, regret, wring their hands in sorrows. The best help for a man is to raise his mood and fighting spirit, which a woman can provide with silent participation, words of reassurance, kisses and hugs. Sometimes one smile is enough to cheer up a loved one and give him confidence that all his labors are not in vain.
7. Mindfulness
Many men paint the image of an ideal partner in that she sensitively absorbs the information laid out by them, studies, accepts criticism, laughs at his jokes and wants to learn in detail about his affairs for the day. If you are one of those “princesses” who require attention and gifts only to their person, then forget about meeting a good man. Guys also like tokens and small gifts (albeit not related to financial investments), spontaneous dates and tasty dinners according to their preferences, even compliments. Show your loved one basic signs of attention, and your family foundation will never collapse.
6. Cheerfulness
Melancholy and always gloomy partners attract only men of the “defender” type, who always need to save the “lost soul”, satisfy their whims and change their lives for the better. But this is an unhealthy model of behavior, leading without fail to breaks and divorces. A real woman is the male rear, a faithful companion, who will always please him with optimism and love of life. Even when a logical man, having analyzed the world around him, becomes depressed or depressed, his beloved should inspire him to the best aspects of life. For example, you can organize leisure activities of mutual interest, hit on an adventurous trip, indulge in children like on a sunny day. Sometimes a favorite dish, cooked in a good mood, can work wonders with a gloomy guy.
5. Jealousy
This is not so much about tantrums and checking the browser history, but about attention. For many men, unfortunately, the perception of reality is distorted, therefore, to understand that they are loved, they need attacks of jealousy from a half. If your man is of this type, you can occasionally indulge his stories about how much attention is paid to him. For example, you can assent: “Yes, it’s not surprising, because you are so beautiful with me. I am proud that you got me. ” In jealousy, it is important not to go too far, for example, not to limit a person’s space and time, not to control his views and thoughts, not to select gadgets for another hysteria. This is the key to a destructive relationship.
4. Show that you need it
Every man wants a woman to act and verbally demonstrate the need for him alone. It’s hard for a guy to be with one that is completely independent, has its own business and housing, rich parents, and even pumped up a bitsak in the gym so that she opens all the banks herself. Even if everything is so, and you are truly an independent young lady, then try to be compliant and gentle even with your beloved one. Do not apply to use his mind, skills and strength abilities in situations where it is possible.
3. Understanding if he makes a mistake
One of the greatest male fears is that a loved one will leave if he suddenly "loses wings." Layoffs, illnesses, and depression happen to everyone. Life coils bring lessons against which your man can stumble and beat bumps. It is extremely important at such moments to be on his side and not to kick for the slightest offense. Believe me, a man has a highly developed thinking, and he is able to understand on his own the first time where he has blamed you. Wait - and he will ask for forgiveness or will be corrected in the future. But poking "a nose into a puddle" is an extremely unhealthy technique for destroying a loved one.
2. Trust
Despite the pleasure received from your easy jealousy, every man secretly wants to be trusted. If you can calmly wait until your beloved hangs out on a fishing trip, corporate event or a day to which you have not been invited, then you can be considered an understanding and wise woman. You should not climb into pockets and social networks - if a man betrays, then this will be heard in his words, visible in everyday actions. A woman has a naturally developed intuition, so there is no need to undermine trust in the family without objective reasons, but only on the basis of your paranoid fantasies.
1. Sincerity
In addition to honesty, a man expects complete openness and sincerity about his woman. And this means that in the relationship there should be no omissions, a hidden background of events and inaccuracies. If you have already begun to repent to your beloved sins, then open your soul to the end - only in this way is complete psychological release possible both for you and for him. Hidden and spoken false will come up in the soul in the form of a trauma, against the background of which neuroses and regular hysteria develop. And all emotional quarrels are fraught with a slow and confident killing of even the brightest feelings.
Of course, due to the natural differences between men and women, the latter sometimes have to adapt to new forms of perception of the world. Guys rely on reason and logic, and women rely on feelings, so reaching mutual understanding requires effort and worldly wisdom. It is these little tips that will help to “open the curtain” into the world of the opposite sex.